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DETROIT FREE PRESS
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870315
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Sunday, March 15, 1987
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METRO FINAL
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SPT
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Photo MARY SCHROEDER
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MITCH ALBOM
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SEE ALSO STATE EDITION, Page 1H
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Copyright (c) 1987, Detroit Free Press
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'MY FAMILY BETRAYED ME'
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"This whole thing has been like a movie -- 'The Negotiation of Lance Parrish.'
It's ridiculous. This is not how I wanted my name in the papers. . . . "

    Lance Parrish, after signing with Philadelphia
CLEARWATER, Fla. -- He pulled the new uniform over his broad shoulders and
tugged on the zipper. Up came the pants around his waist, and the red belt
went through the loops.

  "It fits," he mumbled.
  "Pinstripes," said an observer. "Nice. You look like an inmate."
  "Yeah?" He smirked at the irony.
  And out he went, into the Florida sunshine, into a strange stadium and a
strange team and a  strange league. A small group of fans applauded him,
people who had never applauded Lance Parrish before, and a blond-haired kid in
a Phillies helmet and Phillies jacket held out an autograph ball that  barely
fit in his hand. 
  "Mr. Parrish?" he said. "Pleeeease."
  He's somebody else's hero now. Some other city. Some other park. Two years
of trying to stay with the Tigers have resulted in his  signing with another
team -- only the second major free agent to do so this year. His little saga
has made headlines for months. It is a story with many implications. But
before Detroit writes him off  as a traitor, and before fellow players
canonize him as a martyr, and before baseball lawyers make him Exhibit A in
their "collusion" file, know this: None of that really mattered to Lance
Parrish.
  How can a guy who turned down a guaranteed $1.2 million from Detroit -- a
team he knew and loved -- settle for a guaranteed $800,000 with a team he
knows almost nothing about?
  Listen.
  For the  last few years I felt I might have been playing below the pay
scale for a catcher like myself. But because I had signed a contract, I was
determined to honor it. I figured the Tigers would take care  of me when the
contract was over.
  "To be honest, I felt very . . . let down  . . . by their attempts to sign
a new one. I'd done everything they asked of me. . . . I was naive. I felt
like I had  such a good relationship with the Tigers that they would do what
was fair. And it wasn't even close.
  "I understand they were concerned about my back (which made him sit out
more than two months  of  last season). But I made concessions to that.
Originally I wanted a three-year contract. When I realized it would not have
been a good business decision for them to sign me for three years, what  with
my back, I resigned myself to a one-year contract. I was willing to prove I
could play healthy. I would take a chance if they would. But I was not going
to sign a one-year contract for less than  I was worth.
  "That's what they wanted. The week after they made their last offer in
November ($1 million, one year, a raise of $150,000), that was the point where
money stopped being the premier  issue. That's when I started really taking
this thing personally. . . . "
  As Lance Parrish talked, he slowly pounded a bat into the bullpen grass. He
would say he was happy now. It was obvious he was not. Other free agents in
this winter of discontent may have been trying to make a statement to the
owners. But Parrish -- who has ended up doing just that -- tumbled into the
role out of hurt and  resentment.
  "People aren't going to understand this," he said, "but I thought of the
Detroit Tigers as my family. They raised me in baseball. And in the end . . ."
  He paused.
  "What?" someone  asked. "You felt betrayed? What?" 
  He nodded.
  "That's exactly how I felt. Betrayed."
  It is impossible to say whether the Tigers were right or wrong in their
final offer -- one year at $1.2  million with a second-year option at the same
rate. A healthy Parrish is certainly comparable to the Mets' Gary Carter, who
earns $2 million a year -- but that figure is called "a reference point" by
agents and "a mistake of the past" by owners.
  This much you can say: The Tigers blew their chance with Parrish as much
with their treatment as with their figures. Here was a guy who came up through
 their farm system, who felt like a son in their organization, an All-Star, a
cleanup hitter, a 30-year-old  team leader who gave them 10  honorable
big-league seasons,  and when contract time came he  was handled like just
another customer in the deli. Tigers officials delayed, as is their custom.
They kept the offers low, as is their custom. Their communication with him was
minimal, as is their custom. Sometimes these tactics work.
  And sometimes they do not.
  "What is it that you wanted from the Tigers, really?" Parrish was asked.
"Besides the dollar figure? What was it you wanted that you didn't  get?"
  "I wanted them to talk to me!" he said, the exasperation gushing out. "I
wanted them to be honest with me and try and work something out. If it was the
back problem, OK, I think we could have  structured a contract around that.
Whatever. But I didn't even hear from them between November and after
Christmas! I was owed better treatment than that. What I'm trying to tell you
is, we've been trying  to work something out with the Detroit Tigers for two
years!"
  Parrish was finishing a six-year contract with Detroit. He wanted the new
one to reflect the time he'd put in.  He wanted the negotiations  to reflect
that, too. He wanted, quite simply, to feel wanted. But of course, he let his
agent, Tom Reich, do the negotiations. And the Tigers kept it strictly
business. Claiming his back was too big  a question mark, and that Reich was
clogging communication efforts, Detroit GM Bill Lajoie made no real moves for
Parrish until the last possible day -- the $1.2 million offer. It's a common
ploy by  the Tigers; a last- minute deal snagged Kirk Gibson one year earlier.
  But by that point,  Parrish was seething. He turned the Tigers down. He
was out in the void.
  In the next day's aftermath,  many blamed Reich. It was said he wanted the
catcher to sign elsewhere so he could break the alleged owners' "collusion" --
as much for his ego as for his client's bank account.
  "That's just wrong,"  said Parrish. "He's been taking a bad rap through all
of this. I honestly felt that if I became a free agent, I would be able to do
better than what the Tigers offered me. But they (the owners) have  changed
the system. They're obviously putting the screws to everybody."
  Parrish found the Phillies to be the only interested party. And they were
interested only at lower rates than the Tigers. Why?  Here is one theory:
Because that way, one owner isn't outbidding another, which is how free agency
got to be so ridiculously expensive in the first place.
  If Parrish signed, the Phillies could always  tell the Tigers: "Don't blame
us for stealing him. He came here for less money."  Get it? As long as the new
club offers less, free agency exists in theory, but it is always less
lucrative than the alternative,  staying put.
  The players' union, of course, charged the owners with conspiring on this
-- and thus kidnapping a free market.
  And Lance Parrish was suddenly prime evidence.
  "Of course we initially  demanded the kind of money from Philadelphia that
we wanted from the Tigers," he said, when asked how he could ultimately sign
for a lower figure. "But you can demand all you want. I had received word
from Bill Giles (the Phillies' president) that his offer was the best he could
do given the way everything was in baseball today.
  "I wasn't happy with the position I was put in. But there was an
obligation to do something for other players. Since no other free agents were
moving, I felt I had to make every effort to be the guy who did."
  So in the end -- after some bizarre bickering over  a clause entailing his
right to sue baseball -- Parrish agreed to one year at $800,000, plus $200,000
if his back did not cause serious absence before the All-Star break. He said
he considered returning  to the Tigers on May 1  and "was not too proud to do
it if I had no other choice."
  But any other choice was preferable.  It was a matter of principle. It was
a matter of pride. How could he sign  for less money? Simple. In his mind, the
Tigers owed him more. They owed him for 10 years. He would rather start anew
with Philadelphia -- at a lower salary -- than give in to the Tigers.
  "It cost  me," he said. "It did cost me. But I'm putting my faith in the
Phillies'  organization now. I believe if I show them I can play healthy and
productive they'll take care of me next year."
  Someone  pointed out that this was what he thought of the Tigers, too,
before his contract ran out.
  "Hey," he said, his voice angry, "if it doesn't work, it doesn't work. I'll
end up paying for it. Nobody  else."
  But that is not true. Everybody pays. The Tigers have not only lost their
catcher and cleanup hitter, they have lost a gentleman -- and gained a critic.
Listen to Lance Parrish now:
  "I  see what the Tigers are doing to the other guys on the team. Where's
the loyalty? Everybody talks about loyalty! Arbitration? Yeah. You can win an
arbitration, but you have to sit in there and listen  to them bad-mouth you
the whole time. To me that's not how a grateful employer treats his employes.
  "Kirk Gibson had to go through that kind of thing. Jack Morris had to go
through it. They cut Larry  Herndon down to nothing practically this year. And
Darrell Evans? They cut his pay -- when he's been the most productive guy on
the team the last two years!
  "If that's what I've got to look forward  to, why should I pursue anything
with that club?"
  When he said it, his eyes were cross and his expression sour. This was an
angry man, and anger was never an emotion you saw much in Lance Parrish  --
whose strong, grinning, everything- will-work-out style was a fixture in the
Tigers' clubhouse for years.
  Everybody pays. There are loose ends in this deal that will never be
mended. How bad was  Parrish's back injury? Each side has  a different story.
What offers were made in 1985 and 1986? Each side has a different story.
  And what difference does it make? He's someone else's hero now.  Some other
town. Some other park. "Baseball," said the Phillies' new catcher, "has
elevated itself -- or I should say plunged itself -- to the point where all
anyone is concerned with is trying to get  the upper hand on someone, and
cheat them out of  everything they can. That's what it's become."
  Hear  that? That's the bottom line of the Lance Parrish saga. Another
player jaded on the game. He  is not faultless; he was asking an enormous
amount. His agent is not faultless -- he played it to the hilt. The Tigers
are not faultless, the owners are not faultless. Everybody is to blame.
Everybody  pays. "This whole thing has been ridiculous," said Parrish.
"Everything I didn't want to happen, happened. Like I said, I was naive. I
thought I would be different. That's what I learned from all  this, that I'm
not different. I'm just another employe."  If there's a player left in
baseball who doesn't feel that way these days, he's either very young or very
stupid. What has been lost  in all this?  Well. There's an old story about
Buzzie Bavasi back when he was handling contracts for the Brooklyn Dodgers in
the 1950s -- back before athletes used agents. One day Gil Hodges came in  all
hot about his demands for the next season. Bavasi was ready to pay him
$25,000.
  Of course, Hodges didn't know this. He demanded $24,000, and not a penny
less. "That's a lot of money," Bavasi  said. He suggested a game. He would put
five pieces of paper into a hat, each piece with a figure between $22,000 and
$26,000. "This way," Bavasi said, "you have two chances to exceed your figure,
and  I have two chances to get you lower." Hodges said OK. Bavasi wrote out
the slips. Hodges fished around. He pulled one out of the hat. It read
$26,000. "Yahoo!" he yelled. Bavasi shrugged. Fair was fair.  Hodges got his
money. He never knew that his general manager had written $26,000 on every
slip of paper.  And Bavasi never told him.
  That's what has been lost.
  So there goes Lance Parrish. One  more heart turned stone cold. This is
what all the money is doing. And who on the field Friday even noticed? The
equipment manager collected the baseballs, the kid in the Phillies helmet was
working  on another autograph. Nobody plays taps for spirit. Nobody ever has. 
  "Well," said a Detroit reporter, offering Parrish a final handshake,
"we're going to miss you."
  "You'll get over it," he  said, and he walked away.
CUTLINE
Did Lance Parrish turn his back on Detroit, or vice versa?
Lance Parrish takes a practice swing in his Phillies pinstripes.
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COLUMN;LANCE PARRISH;BASEBALL;CONTRACT;NEGOTIATION
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