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9102030084
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DETROIT FREE PRESS
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910903
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Tuesday, September 03, 1991
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METRO FINAL
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SPT
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1D
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MITCH ALBOM
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SEE ALSO METRO EDITION
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Copyright (c) 1991, Detroit Free Press
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<HEADLINE>
FOR ONCE IN YOUR LIFE, JIMBO, ACT YOUR AGE!
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NEW YORK --  Near the back of the men's locker room, on a wooden bench,
Aaron Krickstein sat by himself, counting down the minutes. Soon he would
become the loneliest man in New York City, the  man who would try to beat
Jimmy Connors, a former tennis bad boy who just turned 39, and suddenly
everyone wants to take him home and hug him.

  "When was the last time you played a 39-year-old?"  someone asked
Krickstein. 

  "My coach," he said, smiling. 
  This would not be his coach. This would not be his peer. This would be
unlike any tennis match he had played before, like playing Castro  in Havana,
like playing Superman at Krypton Stadium. Jimmy Connors now owns the U.S.
Open, I guess because he is brash and crude and would kick your mother in the
crotch to win a fight and therefore  New Yorkers figure, hey, he must be OK.
Go, Jimbo! Connors, a five-time Open champion, has become The Hot Story in The
Big Apple this week, and what's hot in New York gets hot across the country,
it  grows real fast, until now meeting Connors at Flushing Meadow is like
meeting the Libyan army at Tripoli.
  "How many seats here, 20,000?" Krickstein asked. "I figure 19,800 will be
rooting for him,  and 200 for me. I think I gave out that many tickets."
  "I just hope they make some noise." 
  Well. If they did, they were drowned out.  Krickstein and Connors pounded
each other for four hours  and 41 minutes Monday. Five sets. It was the
longest and best match of this U.S. Open so far.
  It was also the most unfair.
Once a jerk, always a jerk  "YOU SON OF A B----! GET YOUR A -- OUT OF  THAT
CHAIR!"
  This was Connors to the umpire at the end of the second set, on a ball
that was pretty clearly out. He didn't like it, so the fans didn't like it.
They hooted at the ump, as Connors jerked his thumb repeatedly in the "you're
outa here" fashion.
  "KISS ME WHEN YOU DO THAT NEXT TIME! I LIKE TO BE KISSED WHEN SOMEONE DOES
THAT TO ME!"
  This was Connors in the fourth set, same  umpire, after another disputed
call. The crowd cheered Jimmy. They clapped on Krickstein's mistakes.
  "YOU'RE AN ABORTION! AN ABSOLUTE ABORTION, YOU KNOW THAT?"
  This was Connors in the fifth  set, same umpire, another disputed call. 
  "I'M TOO F------ GOOD! TOO F------ GOOD!"
  This was Connors yelling to fans after he tied the match at 5-5 in the
final set. They roared like teenagers.  This was tennis? A major tournament?
Did Krickstein count at all? 
  Apparently not. For all this abuse -- and there was plenty more that I
left out -- there were no penalties from the umpires. No  fines. Not even a
warning. Connors steered this match brilliantly and diabolically, intimidating
the officials and playing the crowd like a piano. I point this out only to
remind you that while Connors  is a great story, a brilliant competitor, he is
still, quite often, a jerk.
  Which is why I question all the hype he is getting this week. Sure, what
he is doing at the Open, at his age, is terrific  -- two five-set victories in
his first four rounds -- but the light that is shining on his courage and
guts, which he has always had, seems also to be casting him as some sort of
good guy. And you shouldn't  buy that. This clever marketing campaign (the
PaineWebber commercials) and the way Connors works the TV cameras -- now that
he has become a network analyst, the kind of job he once spat at -- has not
fooled me. This is the same temperamental guy who would bite your nose off,
tell your kids to get lost, give fans the finger. What you saw in the second
set Monday, and in the fourth, and in the fifth  -- the crude abuse, the
me-first, me-only attitude -- that's Connors. Always has been.
Play by the rules  Having said that, you must give him his due. He came
back from a set down, and from three  games behind in the fifth. At 29 that's
impressive. At 39 it's incredible. Time after time, Connors would charge to
the net like a wild beast, slapping away returns. He played through injury,
fatigue, his chest heaving, his hair dripping sweat. He seemed destined to
win, convinced it was just a matter of time.
  And maybe that is the difference between Connors and Krickstein, who has
always been  a little too nice for his own success. In six tries, Krickstein,
24, has never beaten Connors. Mentally, perhaps, he doesn't believe it can be
done. "I should have been more aggressive," Krickstein admitted after blowing
a 5-2 lead in the fifth.
  Then again, he was taking on the entire stadium.
  And things will not change for the next opponent. On Thursday, in the
quarterfinals, Paul Haarhuis will  become the loneliest man in town. Connors
is New York City this week, they are all behind him. And that's fine, I guess
-- as long as Connors isn't allowed to chew the rules and spit them out. 
 Personally, this whole Let's-Celebrate-Jimmy bandwagon seems a little too
orchestrated for me. He's 39? Great. So's my barber. I pay more attention to
little things, like behavior, like history. Like  after the match, when
someone asked Connors if he felt compassion for Krickstein. This is what he
said:
  "Hey, nobody ever had compassion for me."
  A New York hero, if there ever was one.
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TENNIS;  JIMMY CONNORS; COLUMN
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